
Marriage represents God by serving as a living, earthly picture of the covenant relationship between Christ and the church
Marriage represented God relationship with not just the church but even God’s Very Oneness he holds with his Son and the Son with Church.
Satan’s first attack was to divide Eve from her Husband and then use her pride and lust for Glory for herself to disrupt her union and the order of the Oneness she had with her Husband. And he gained that through Adam inability to stay vigilant about Garden and things he was put in charge to watch over. And til this day Satan continues to use the same tricks on the marriage even the same steps of first trying make men less visual and active in the watch over things so that he can make the women rebel against authority and submitting to their Husbands. The Oneness was the first goal.
“Here O Israel, the Lord thy God is ONE“. This same word “one” was used in the first instructions given about this union of Adam and Eve…
“Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become ONE FLESH.” Gen 2:24
The word “one” used here is echad, which means a unified whole. When Christ said, “The Father and I are one,” He pointed back to a union that is far more than casual. It is not something entered into out of boredom, and certainly not something abandoned simply because you did not get your way or believe the grass might be greener with someone else. This union was never intended to be anything less than the deepest connection in human life, because it was patterned after God’s own connection with His Son and the Church.
Marriage is also a blood covenant representing Christ’s covenant with the Church, His people. This is one of the greatest truths many modern churches have stopped teaching. The blood covenant that Christ died to fulfill and rose to renew operates on the exact principles marriage is built upon. The entire reason Christ had to die was to fulfill the Old Covenant, because a blood covenant can only be dissolved through the shedding of blood, namely, death (hence the phrase, “until death do us part”).
This is the divine design of marriage. Historically and biblically, the blood shed during the physical consummation of a woman’s virginity sealed that marital covenant. It was never intended to be taken lightly or driven by temporary impulse. It was meant to be reserved exclusively for her husband, sealing a devoted, lifelong partnership. This is why sex was never designed to be casual, and why treating it as such is sin.
Satan has turned this sacred reality into a global mockery. Society now treats intimacy merely as self-gratification, something to indulge in whenever, wherever, and with whomever one pleases. The biblical standard that intimacy belongs solely within marriage is dismissed as outdated. Society excuses youthful indulgence under the banner of “coming of age,” shifting the focus to mere “safety” rather than honoring lifelong covenant. What was created to mirror the holy bond between God and His Church has been distorted into spiritual corruption and moral decay, a direct reflection of Satan’s kingdom rather than God’s.
Within the Marriage that exist today…there are common thoughts that are not seen and supported in the Bible..
LIES of the Enemy:
- The thought is that you are two people that can do whatever they want. You can do whatever you like, and I can do whatever I like and as long as I’m not hurting anyone …what’s the big deal.
- This is a 50/50 partnership that nobody has control in and therefore there is no true Head.
- This is Mine, and that is Yours
- To be summited and obedient to someone means that I’m a Child.
- My body, my choices.
- I can have secret accounts and secret items that is just for me.
- You married my family too …not just me.
- My Mother/ or Father or other family members are Just as important as my spouse or more important.
- My Children are more important than my Spouse.
- Open marriage is the key to happiness.
- Toys and Porn are fine inside the Marriage.
- My spouse is just a roommate with benefits only when I feel like it.
- I can have friendships of opposite sex that I run to and talk to, to confine in all the time.
- My friends that I run with don’t have to be in a successful marriage or married and yet I seek their advice.
1Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives, 2when they see your respectful and pure conduct. 3Do not let your adorning be external the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear . 4but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God’s sight is very precious. 5For this is how the holy women who hoped in God used to adorn themselves, by submitting to their own husbands, 6as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord. And you are her children, if you do good and do not fear anything that is frightening. 7Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with youa of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered. 1 Peter 3:1-7
1Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ 2Now I commend you because you remember me in everything and maintain the traditions even as I delivered them to you. 3But I want you to understand that the head of every man is Christ, the head of a wifea is her husband,b and the head of Christ is God. 4Every man who prays or prophesies with his head covered dishonors his head, 5but every wifec who prays or prophesies with her head uncovered dishonors her head, since it is the same as if her head were shaven. 6For if a wife will not cover her head, then she should cut her hair short. But since it is disgraceful for a wife to cut off her hair or shave her head, let her cover her head. 7For a man ought not to cover his head, since he is the image and glory of God, but woman is the glory of man. 8For man was not made from woman, but woman from man. 9Neither was man created for woman, but woman for man. 10That is why a wife ought to have a symbol of authority on her head, because of the angels.d 11Nevertheless, in the Lord woman is not independent of man nor man of woman; 12for as woman was made from man, so man is now born of woman. 1 Corinthians 11:1-2
Roles and Structure within Marriage
- Headship (Husbands): Husbands are called to provide servant leadership, loving their wives sacrificially just as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25, Colossians 3:19). [1, 2]
- Submission (Wives): Wives are called to respect and willingly align with their husbands’ leadership as an act of obedience and reflection of the church’s relationship with Christ (Ephesians 5:22, Colossians 3:18)
And yet, even though each of these verses and many more consistently reinforces the importance of order and what that order is, people still ignore it. Every single time this order is not followed, you bring glory to Satan over God and consequences happen sooner or later. We have to remember in the same way this order exists, it mirrors the relationship of the Church to Christ. It exists to show the glory of God to the world, demonstrating the oneness of God with His Son, and the Son with the Church. So you aren’t rebelling against the Patriarch, you are rebelling against God himself. You aren’t rebelling against “The MAN”…you are rebelling against God himself. It isn’t about being free to do what you want …it’s about not being free because you were bought with a price, a blood price and the only freedom you have now is to be free of the Old Covenant which contained the law of sin of death.
Tell me: how can any direction opposite to God’s word, represent God and everything He established through His Son and creation if the mirror image is corrupted? If the reflection of God’s kingdom and will is flawed, selfish, unruly, hateful toward men, abusive toward women, disrespectful of His laws, rebellious against His design, hypocritical, and blasphemous toward His commandments, then our reflection suggests God’s kingdom is not His glory, but His nightmare.
We represent the kingdom of Satan far more than the kingdom of God when we rebel against what He established. Satan frames this rebellion in our minds as an act of pride and heroism, as though standing up against divine order is something noble. Satan is a master at deceiving man into fighting for his own glory over God’s, praising it as an achievement, while all along we are spitting in the face of God and the sacrifice of His Son. All of this stems from the very same sin found in the Garden: laziness/Vanity/Pride. Women do not want to be submit or be lead by; they want to rule alongside, which is the exact sin of Satan. Men don’t want to work hard anymore we want things handed to them. We want to find reason why we are not successful in everything but our own actions. All of these things were present at the Fall of Man in the Garden and it exist today.
Ultimately, all of everything we do comes down to our will to be or not to be of God. Sooner or later we are all faced with the choice to obey or disobey. The problem comes in when we want to complain that our choices shouldn’t have consequences when they are opposite of God’s.






















